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“He Didn’t Hit You” – Why Psychological Abuse Is Serious
Brushed Off by Police: One Woman’s Story With trembling hands and a racing heart, Mia stepped into the police station. She mustered the courage to explain that her partner was tormenting her – constant insults, tracking her phone, isolating her from friends. The officer listened for a moment, then shrugged: “Well, he didn’t hit you, did he?” In that instant, Mia’s hope crumbled. She left feeling brushed off by police , clutching an incident number that felt meaningless. In h


I Booked a Lawyer, But Canceled — Finding Courage After Emotional Abuse
I Booked a Lawyer, But Canceled — Finding Courage After Emotional Abuse


I Tried to Drown My Pain in Work and Routine
A woman overworks herself to avoid the pain of an abusive relationship. Learn why emotional abuse and coercive control are real and harmful, and get a step-by-step emotional safety plan (with WomanAid app tools) to reclaim safety and hope.


He Discovered I Was Recording — What Now?
“I wanted to record him, but he heard the sound and took my phone,” she confided, voice shaking. It happened on a Thursday night. The argument started like all the others: low at first, then swelling to that frightening volume. This time, determined to have evidence of his threats, she discreetly hit ‘record’ on her phone. Her heart pounded as his voice escalated—until a sudden beep betrayed her.


I Tried to Change Everything About Myself — It Still Wasn’t Enough
A woman lost herself trying to appease a controlling partner. This empathetic guide shines a light on coercive control, explains why emotional abuse is still abuse (even when police dismiss it), and helps you craft an emotional safety plan to stay safe and reclaim yourself.


I Hoped a Baby Would Change Everything
I hoped a baby would change everything – but abuse often only gets worse during pregnancy. 💔 This in-depth guide helps women in abusive relationships understand why a baby won’t fix an abusive partner, how to recognize signs of abuse, and steps to quietly plan for safety using the WomanAid app’s features. Gentle, empowering advice for expecting moms in dangerous relationships, with tips on creating a safety plan, documenting abuse securely, and finding support. You’re not al


I Talked to My Family, But They Didn’t Support Me
Women saying “I talked to my family, but they didn’t support me” often face emotional abuse alone. Learn how to stay safe, validate your experience, and build an emotional safety plan with WomanAid.


I Tried to Scare Him with Divorce and the Police
I never thought fear could get any worse than it already was. Last night, after another screaming argument, I blurted out the only defense I could think of: “If you don’t stop, I swear I’m divorcing you and calling the police!” I hoped my words would shock him into changing. Instead, a chilling smile spread across his face.


I Talked to His Parents Hoping They’d Influence Him
I still remember the knot in my stomach as I sat at his mother’s kitchen table. My voice trembled while I described how her son’s anger had been spiraling – the shouting, the smashed phone, the way I was afraid to even speak up. I hoped she of all people could help me reach him. But his mother just sighed and waved her hand as if brushing away trivial gossip. “He’s just like that, dear. You know how he is – don’t provoke him,” she said softly, pouring tea. Her words hit me li


I Decided to Just Stay Quiet and Talk Less – But It Only Made Him Angrier
“I decided to just stay quiet and talk less.” It sounds like a simple solution to avoid fights – but in a toxic relationship, even silence becomes a weapon used against you. If you feel like you’re walking on eggshells with a partner who twists even your quiet into wrongdoing, you’re not alone. 🤝 It’s not your fault. Learn how to recognize coercive control and find a safe way forward. Read our latest WomanAid blog for steps to turn your silent fear into empowered action


I Started Working on Myself So I Wouldn’t Provoke Him
One woman’s journey from self-blame to self-trust. This is a story of feeling like nothing I did was ever good enough to keep the peace, and how I learned that my safety alarm wasn’t “paranoia” – it was wisdom. Read on to recognize the signs of emotional abuse, build a focused safety plan (with today, this week, and urgent steps), and find the strength to put your wellbeing first with help from tools like WomanAid.


I Tried to Save Our Relationship in Therapy
For many women, couples therapy feels like a last hope to fix a hurting relationship. But what if your partner twists that hope into another weapon against you?


No Bruises, Still Abuse: Recognizing Coercive Control and Finding Safety
Late at night, a woman sits in the dim glow of her laptop. Hands trembling, she types out a question to an anonymous forum: “Is it normal that he checks my phone and calls me names when he’s upset?” Within minutes, replies flood in. This is abuse, you need to leave. He’s controlling you. Each response hits her like a jolt. For a moment, clarity washes over her – maybe this isn’t all in my head. She recognizes flashes of her life in those replies: the constant monitoring, the


I Found a Crisis Center but Got Scared to Go – One Woman’s Path from Fear to Safety
I found a crisis center but got scared to go. Discover why feeling afraid to seek help is a normal response in abusive relationships and learn empowering small steps (using tools like the WomanAid Safety app) to build a path toward safety at your own pace.
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